Sunday, November 7, 2010

AS BILL SEES IT, Question 14c

What can we give to the newcomer?

The first thing I can give (or do) for the newcomer is to be abstinent.  If I am, I have clarity of mind and in turn, this affects my behavior; how I react and speak to people.

The next thing I can give to the newcomer (or do) is attend local meetings.  My presence there (with others) will help ensure there will continue to be meetings available for the newcomer when they decide to come.

Another thing I can do for the newcomer is attend intergroup and volunteer to do service.  On a local level, we need to make sure we have meeting lists, and that the web-site and World Service is updated (with the meeting information).  Then, when someone searches for meeting information, they'll be able to find current information.

Something else I can do, if available, is sponsor.  If not, I can help by trying to find someone else who may be available.

Finally, I can offer the newcomer hope.  By sharing my experience and strength in the meetings, I offer them hope.  Their continuing to hear this message in the meetings from all of us helps to dispel the discouragement and fear that many of us first walk in with.

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